6 - Pros of having a Brother

My recent blog, the 3^rd one is all about the Cons of having a brother. It is negative so I want to balance it that’s why now I will blog about the Pros of having a brother. Having a brother is not only about the negative side, it also have a positive side especially when you're a girl.

Pros: 

• You have someone to annoy 24/7

Even though you're the eldest one sometimes your childish attitude will really come out and when that happen your main goal is so piss you brother. Even though he's not in the mood for you will still piss him until you feel satisfied. Sometimes you even use his girlfriend to piss him, for example "Your girlfriend is so ugly" or "Kelan kayo magbebreak ni *insert name of girlfriend*?" I'm a crazy and annoying sister I know. But it just makes my day when I piss my brother hehe.

• You have your very own fashion stylist (boy version)

Most of us would make your sister your fashion stylist but a brother can also be one. He can tell you what you really look like even though he will already offend you. For example:                

You: "Kuya what do you think of my outfit?" 

Him: "You look stupid"          
          

Well yeah, they are like that, they are honest with you about what you wear and not only that because they can tell you what boys want girls to wear or what outfit you should wear to make the boys turn their head on you. They are boy’s duuh.

• You don't need to worry if you have a left over

He is always your backup if you can't finish your food. You will just give it to him because he's a guy, he eats a lot, twice or thrice as you do if he can. So you won't feel guilty for not finishing your food. He will finish all the food you can't take anymore, he will just say "Just leave it there, I will get it later." He can also be your 'tagahimay' yeap, especially when you're really spoiled to him.

• Instant Yaya

You can ask him to do this, do that, do whatever you want him to do, especially when you’re older than him. And also when you need to carry a heavy object he's there so you can just ask him to do it for you, or if you can't reach the object, you can ask him to get it for you because obviously he is much taller than you, that is why he annoys you that you are small.  

• You will feel safe when you're going out with him 

Because when you're with him boys can't look at you nor be near to you, with just one look of your brother to that guy, he will already run away. He is your fence when you're out with him some of the bad people will not target your for snatching nor raping because you have a guy with you and he is your protector. He is even willing to kill someone when they hurt you, physically or emotionally.

• You have someone to help you in doing the household choirs

Does he have a choice? Absolutely NOT! Simply because you will tell your parents that he did not do anything but to face the computer all day and play DOTA or talk to him girlfriend 24/7, so he doesn't have a choice but to help you. You can even ask him to do the laundry for you and clean the house, but you can't trust him all this because you have no idea how men work, I’m not referring to all men but some of them really don't have any idea at doing the household choirs. It's even good for them that you ask them to do that because in the future when they are already married, he can use it and his wife will be impressed. 

• You have someone who can drive you anywhere/teach you how to drive/fetch you anywhere

And when you're already the one driving he is very nervous well because he doesn't trust you with his life especially when you’re the one driving, bad brother right? But it is an advantage because you can ask him and not your dad anymore to teach you how to drive and if he doesn't want to teach you, you will blackmail him. Also he can be your fetcher if you still don't know how to drive, just a phone call away especially when it's late.  He can also drive you anywhere, when he's on a great mood he is your road trip partner. 

• If he's older than you, you have someone who will pamper and spoil you 

Most of the older brothers spoil their little sister, he gives her anything she wants and she on the other side really ask for everything, by everything I mean all that she wants will be given to her by her brother because if he doesn't give it, the sister will huff to his brother or she will have her tantrums. 

• He can be your adviser about boys

When you and your boyfriend are quarrelling he is the first person you should talk to especially when you can't understand your partner, you brother will be the one that show you who is the one really wrong in your problem and if you are the one he will let you realize that and advice you on what to do.

• He knows if a boy is serious to you is he's just joking around

 He is a boy so he knows boys, like the other pro he will advice you and he can already sense if a boy is good for you or will just hurt you at the end of the day. he is also like your mother who can sense the people around you. Sometimes he is a playboy so he knows the acts of a playboy so you should really listen to him.

• You can blame him to all the mistakes you have done

And he is the one mommy and daddy will be angry at, not you. This will always happen when the brother is elder than you, when you break a toy or a vase you will point him and you will tell your parents that it's his fault why you broke the vase because he's running after you which is true so he can't do anything about it.